Basics Everyone Should Know About “Hauntings” – #1

I am known by my students, clients, friends, and family to be a blunt speaking individual. While I make every attempt to be kind in my personal life, in my professional life kindness is not appropriate.  Please do not misunderstand me – I want to hear your story and I want to understand why you have come to me, but I do not have time for you to tell me my business and/or correct me when I am trying to explain something to you. Time is always of the essence in this line of work.

It always amazes me the number of individuals who come to me for assistance who then turn around and try to tell me my business.  They have no valid information whatsoever other than what they have seen in a movie or heard from a friend who saw it in a movie or read it online or some other most likely nonsensical place.  The internet is a source of both information and ignorance and it really is important to understand the difference if you want to make it through life relatively unscathed.

So, just as a head’s up for some people who keep telling me what’s what, here are some basics everyone should know.  I will elaborate further in the future.

  1. Just because you think you are haunted does not mean you actually have ghosts within your environment.
  2. Detrimental Energy Beings (DEBs) come in many shapes, forms, and sizes.
  3. DEBS do not need your permission to attach to you.
  4. DEBs do not need your permission to enter your house.  Vampires are a made up story and if they existed probably would not care about your permission either.
  5. DEBs do not need your permission to attack you or your children or your pets.
  6. DEBs will not leave just because you spray holy water around a room.  That will only make your things wet.
  7. Waving a cross will not make DEBs or ghosts go away.  It is an object and objects have no inherent power over anything energetic.
  8. DEBs will not leave because you read something you found on the internet at them three times.  That is nonsense and only makes you look silly when you shriek that out.
  9. 99.999% of ghosts are not trapped where they died.
  10. Ghosts will not “go into the light” just because you tell them to.  That’s just silly.
  11. Mediums are conduits for communication – the vast majority of them do not know how to make an environment safe for people.
  12. Not everyone who says they are an exorcist or a shaman on the internet really knows what they are doing.  Do your research – buyer beware!
  13. Just because someone’s grandma could see the dead or hear the dead does not mean that they themselves have the needed knowledge base comparable to tending a true haunting or a possession situation.  Please stick with the valid experts so no one really gets hurt.
  14. Just because someone has a tv show does not mean they are compentent, knowledgeable, or effective – or even knows how to tell the truth.  Please brush up your skills of observation to understand the difference between entertainment and professional skills.
  15. The professional exorcist does not dress like a dragged out gypsy.  We are professionals and professionalsim requires us to be discrete in all ways as our clients don’t exactly what a billboard advertisement regarding who visits them.

Yes, I know you had an experience and for many, the experience is actually many incidents over a period of time which have scared you.  I am not here to scare you.  This is why I am not going to give you a master’s thesis on what is going on in your situation nor am I going to teach you about how to take care of it.  When I take on a client, I eliminate what is bothering the client and make their space habitable again.  I will give you some after-care instructions for you to continue to keep your space positive but it is not the end-all of solutions.

I was born to do this work.  Many people like to say that, or they say they were drawn to the work, but the truth is there are very few of us who are born to this work much less effective at this work and many, many more wanna be’s who actually make the situation worse.

Please be careful in making your choices.  Everything you do is an opportunity for both the Light and the Darkness and you are entirely responsible for every choice you make in your life.

Sleep Paralysis – Demon Inflicted?

During the last 20 years, I have encountered more and more individuals who claim to have experienced sleep paralysis.  WebMD defines Sleep Paralysis as:

Sleep paralysis is a feeling of being conscious but unable to move. It occurs when a person passes between stages of wakefulness and sleep. During these transitions, you may be unable to move or speak for a few seconds up to a few minutes. Some people may also feel pressure or a sense of choking.

When you google online, you will find dozens of individuals who write about their experiences with sleep paralysis, with some stating that it passed quickly and uneventfully and others who talk about terrifying experiences that appeared to last for hours.

The medical definition obviously does not cover the latter experience, though it could explain the prior.  So what could explain the latter?

Some individuals online have decided that it is demon’s terrorizing them while others think it might be ghosts.  Some won’t categorize it though they explain they feel pressure or a presence looming over them.

So is there a definitive answer to the experience?  Let me try.

First – sleep paralysis in and of itself is a normal part of the human experience.  That state of slowly waking up where your body and mind are out of sync and re-alignment takes a few moments.

This out of sync sensation can take place in other environments as well, such as meditation.  This is why the careful meditation leader makes sure individuals have enough time to pull themselves back into their body fully before ending a meditation. The mind, body, and energy of the individual relinks fully and there is no discord, no lack of coordination as a result.

So if it is a part of the normal human system, then why do some people have terrifying experiences?

Demons are not creative.  They are only capable of taking what exists currently in the human experience and manipulating or twisting it to suit their own purpose.  They do not physically manifest because they don’t need to.  All they need to do is monitor you and your differing energetic states and then, when you reach that moment of connection between mind and physical body, interrupt the connection and influence the situation.

They are not physically holding you down, but it feels that way because they are using your own real world experiences to scare you.  They are not physically looming over you, but because they are negative energetic beings they surround you with their energy and thus the result is that it feels as if they are looming.

Are the controlling your experience?  Absolutely.

Are you powerless?  No.  YOU can take control of the situation.  You can end the moment plus put into place protections for yourself so that you never leave yourself in a position to be manipulated and used in this way again.

How?  How can you help yourself and retake control over this aspect of your life?

It is simple, but until you try it for yourself you won’t believe it.  Our society today has made such a mockery of everything that is energetic that no one believes in anything energetic.  Religions have created environments of disbelief and rejection of everything energetic because it goes against their agenda of control and manipulation.  The basis for the majority of spiritual beliefs around the world is the belief in energetic presences of differentiating natures but the major world religions have downsized this as incorrect, evil, and even as nonsense.  This way, they are the “authority” that individuals turn to when there are circumstances happening that they cannot explain.

Yet, these same organizations FAIL their believers when these experiences are not simply explained away, when the experiences repeatedly happen even after the priest or minister has done “their thing” and heartily assure the individual that everything is just fine.

This leaves the believer an opening to not only disbelieve everything the religion has taught them, but it also leaves an opening for the detritus and demons that co-exist with us to take root and slowly take over.

So again – what can you do to help yourself?

Simple.  You have to HELP yourself by taking the actions I outline below.  You cannot expect someone to come in and save you, because the people you are expecting to help you are completely oblivious on how to do it.  Don’t call a medium because they may be able to communicate with the Detrimental Energy Beings (DEBs), but 99% of them are just as successible as you are to the DEBSs influence.

And yes – you can do this for yourself.  You don’t even have to believe in it 100% for it to be effective, but the more you believe the better you will protect yourself.  But that always takes time.  What matters first is allowing yourself enough wiggle room to believe that something else exists out there that balances the Darkness with Light and that something will protect you.

The Light Beings who exist around us are here to help, but if you don’t know about them you cannot call upon them.  If you “know” but don’t believe they can help you, then you eliminate their ability to help you at all.  Light Beings do not force their help onto you, as the Darkness will force everything.  Polar opposites.

Remember – when you are lying there frozen, you can still think, control your thoughts, and exert your personal Will Power.  You don’t need to move your mouth to do that! This is key to stopping the DEBs every time.

So – this is what you will do.

  1. Call upon the Beings of Light to assist you.“I call upon the Beings 100% of Light to aid me NOW!”BE SPECIFIC!!  Clarify 100% of the Light.  Otherwise you leave yourself successible to DEBs pretending they are Light Beings there to help you.  As you gain experience with this, you may feel sensations that validate your experience.  Light Beings only know UNCONDITIONAL LOVE – that’s the only emotion they can share with humans. DEBs do not possess the ability to Love, so if they pretend to Love you it will not last and you will feel other emotions other than Love.
  2. “I call upon Archangel Michael, 100% of the Light, to rid my body, my energy, and my space of all DEBs, NOW!”

The Angelics are not what the various world religions would have you think they are – and thus, try to not allow their conditioning to affect you and your ability to call upon them.  They are Light Beings and part of their purpose on this Earth Plane is to help humans.  Their greater purpose is not important, but just know and remember that they have only unconditional Love for humans, unlike DEBs.

And that is that – those two steps – calling for help and being specific about what you want done in that moment.  And that’s the first step – helping yourself when you are afraid and don’t know what is happening.  The second step is to keep yourself protected at all times – even when you are about to go to sleep.

SHIELDING AND GROUNDING TECHNIQUE WITH CAMO LAYER

  • Take all the time you need to learn this exercise thoroughly, until it becomes an automatic reflex. As you develop skill with this process, you should be able to do it anywhere during anything happening in your life.
  • The Lower Tan T’ien represents one’s basic body center and energetic foundation and is located approximately two inches below the navel in the center of the pelvic area. Also known as the Hara.
  • Centering in the Lower Tan T’ien helps one shift attention to experiencing the NOW without being distracted by past or future.
  • Centering yourself provides the opportunity to feel the energy of calm and peace move throughout and enact change upon you, regardless of what emotional state you were in.

Place yourself in a comfortable sitting position.  If you lay down to begin with, you may fall asleep.

Relax and take three slow, deep breaths.  Count to 10 for each breath, hold it for at least 3 seconds, and then release the breath through your mouth.

Place your attention at the Lower Tan Tien and center yourself.  Allow yourself to place all your attention here and FEEL.

Now, look in front of you, approximately three feet.  A column of white, iridescent energy has formed.  As you stare at it, you realize it goes deep within the earth and reaches far into the heavens. This column of energy has Archangel Michael’s energy resonance throughout it, strong, protective, and clear.  Some people see it as having a blue energy tint.

As you stare at the energy column, it begins to move to your left and slowly will complete a circle around you.  As it moves around you counter clockwise, slowly repeat to yourself the following phrase as the column moves to each quarter point (left, back, right, front):

This is the circle that surrounds me
And protects me
And that guides me
And heals me

You may feel a small energetic “snap” when you get done with the last step,

Do the shielding process a minimum of three rotations.  Three rotations equals one rep.

Once comfortable with this technique, you should always follow your guidance daily on how many reps you need to do this – note, this will vary from day to day!

Now, you are going to ground.

Shift your attention from the Lower Tan T’ien to your feet.  Feel how heavy they are.  How solid.  How they are part of the earth and hold you here.

Visualize roots flowing out from the bottom of your feet, flowing into the ground.  Deeper and deeper until they stop at the perfect depth which you will recognize intuitively.  Or maybe you see your feet extending down as a column of light into the earth.

Once your bottom energy has stopped, then shift your attention to your head.

Visualize a column of light growing from your head way up into the air, high above you, up to the top of the Troposphere miles above us.  Feel the energy sink into this Christos energy which surrounds this planet and allow yourself to connect deeply.

Now, fill your energy structure with this high vibrational energy.  Begin by pulling in the earth mother energy and then once you feel it flowing through you, pull down the Christos energy.

To help you focus on these steps, recite to yourself:

I reach below
I reach above
I pull it all together
And I fill myself with love.

Allow yourself to feel the energy as it moves up into your body and allow yourself the time to move slowly, paying attention to every part of you as the energy enfolds you.

Once you feel both energies flowing through you, focus your attention at the heart chakra.  Visualize the energies pooling together and then flowing outwards through all the meridians until you are encased in a web of light.

The combined energy of these two Light Beings will smooth out your energy and level and balance your emotions so you continue to feel calm and at peace.

Ask Archangel Michael to remove any blockages and then to fill place with Light.

Once all the meridians are flowing, the combined energy will fountain from the heart chakras out to your auric layers, moving up and through each layer to smooth and balance with this Love energy.

Once you feel “full”, thank all the Light beings involved with this gift and allow yourself to shift into meditation.

Now, ask the Light to camouflage your outermost layer of shielding so that your energy frequency is “visible” to only with the intent of serving your highest and best good.

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These steps may feel awkward and you may feel silly doing them, but I have never encountered anyone who did not find them effective.  Even individuals who had never done any form of energy work or meditation were able to protect themselves when they did this exercise.

I know some people have a hard time reading the steps and doing them, so I have posted a recorded Shielding and Grounding Exercise online for you to listen to and follow.

Third – buy some sage and burn it at night before you go to sleep.  Waft it all over your room, including closets and under your bed.  Sage creates a 24 hour barrier for DEBs, so it minimizes their opportunity to reach you.

No one is going to save you.  No one is going to swoop in and rescue you.  YOU have to take care of YOURSELF.  Do it.  Know it.  Believe it.

Questions?  Concerns?  Email me.  Help is available and when you can do it yourself, you don’t need anyone else to do it for you.

Exorcism Needed, but Fear Remains

I am not sure what it is that scares people more – knowing that something wrong is going on in their life or reaching out to ask for help with it.  Recently I have encountered two different individuals who, upon discussion, really needed my help.  I was available for a discussion, but after they broached the subject quickly backed out – it was fine, everything was fine, they changed their mind, it’s all good.

In cases like this, I don’t press people.  You truly have to be ready to give your permission for this work to take place.  You can say ‘yes’ but think ‘no’ and then my hands are tied.  When the situation involves an outside location that is not owned by anyone in particular, that’s easy.  I can do what I need to do without repercussions.

At the beginning of summer, my younger child noticed an ad for a house for sale that was heavily promoted as haunted.  This is unusual as that usually dampens the ardor for old houses.  We went over and viewed the house from the street and knew right away that it was not haunted.  The house had a number of things going on, from a tainted energy well to several mid to high level demons feeding off the well, to just a number of random low level detritus lurking, but there were no discarnates – no ghosts – around.

This place was, in a word, a mess.  These kinds of situations are easy peasy for me to fix, but the true concern was that the realtor had already posted an update that some people who were “amateur ghost busters” were already in the process of purchasing the house without having seen it.

I have met many “amateur” and many “professional” ghost busters and mediums who think they know how to do what I do.  And they don’t.  I am not bragging when I say I was born to do this – for I was designed for this work very specifically.  I don’t have many talents in this world, but I have never met anyone who can do what I do.  And I have a number of shamans who refer out to me, so path of spirituality does not mean anything.

So what to do?  The house looked as if it had been foreclosed upon, the realtor obviously just wanted to dump it as fast as possible, and anyone who actually walked onto the property were going to be munched up faster than an unsupervised child eating chocolate.

My ethical process is usually very black and white, and this time it did not fail.  I pulled up to the curb, parked my vehicle, and cleared the space as thoroughly as I could.  I cleared the tainted well, transmuted out the demons and rounded up the detritus and raised the vibration of the space so that anyone who goes onto the property won’t end up possessed immediately.

More than that, I could not do without proper authorization from the realtor.  I can go into environments and clear situations to save people from that which they don’t understand, but I cannot save them from themselves and their own choices made in fear or ignorance.

Which leads me back to the day’s sadness.  I would have liked to talk with Nikki more, to find out about her grandfather and his situation and see if I could help bring him peace. I enjoy helping people whenever I can and usually will do all I can for whatever price is fair.  It is not about money to me, nor is it about fame for I am incredibly discreet.  For me, this is my path, this is my life of Service, and I do what I can, when I can, wherever I can, for whomever I can.

Regardless of what Hollywood likes to promote, this line of Work is not financially prosperous.  Many people who are drawn to it are drawn to the Hollywood version of ghosts, such as The Sixth Sense, where they will help someone save the day, rectify the wrong, and then will be able to sell the story and make lots of money because they were in the right place at the right time.

I have dozens and dozens of stories.  I don’t sell them, I share them briefly as needed with the individuals who hired me, and when I am done I am not just sending “something” off to the Light.  It’s gone.  It won’t come back and whatever drew it to you or your place is going to be fixed to not have that happen again.

So Nikki, email me.  Let me help your grandfather so the end of his time here is peaceful and not beleaguered.   Let’s make your last memories of him happy and leave you at peace as well.

One of the first questions I always receive when someone contacts me for help with a “situation” is, “What’s next?” which is then followed by, “It’s all over, right?”

My answer is, inevitably, “No, it’s ‘not over’ and what follows next depends upon the afflicted client.”

Technically I never call a client “afflicted” because there are negative connotations to that word, but really their condition varies between conflicted and afflicted.  When you are afflicted, something is causing you pain, distress, suffering, etc.  The conflicted part comes in when the ego starts to fight with the experiences just completed and whispers that it really was “not that bad” and “we can return to the life we were living”.

This is not true, especially for the one who I just rescued from an imminent demon incursion.  That person is still breathing shallowly and trying to figure out what the heck happened to them and why.  Which is all good – these are the right questions for this person to ask.

99% of the time the people asking the questions we started this article with are the ones who want to pretend they were never inconvenienced by the situation plus they want to deny that the afflicted is a person who needs help and/or assistance but is being denied that by those around him or her.

Our world is filled with fearful, selfish people who want to stay locked up in their bubble of coping and so they want you to stay locked up in your bubble of coping.  When you go outside of your bubble of coping – a la demon infestation explosion – all they want is for everything to go back to the same old, same old.

When I point out that the reason this started is because of an emotional wound that never healed properly they are quick to jump on the bandwagon that the person is “over sensitive”, a “drama king/queen”, is always making waves, does not know a good thing when they see it, etc. etc. etc.

Stop.  Stop already, please.  This is not about you making the person feel even worse about their life now that you have the amunition from this situation to add onto your nuclear bomb you regularly drop onto them.

This is about you, walking away.  Stopping everything and just walking away.  Because that is what they need if you cannot see that their world has just been impacted more than your life ever has and likely ever will because you are already emotionally dead. Which also translates into the knowledge that YOU helped create the situation and you are trying your damndest to avoid taking your fair share of the responsibility.

So – for the record.  No, life will never be the same – but it can be BETTER if the person is willing to gather some courage and do what is needed to do.  It can be BETTER if you just get off that person’s case about everything.  Hold them to standards a reasonable adult should be held to, but be compassionate because that person just survived a war zone and they feel like crap – physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

This was an experience for you both, for all of you.  This is a magical world we live in with amazing properties that are completely downgraded and sometimes hidden by the human powers that be.  Stop trying to crawl back into your little bubble of nothing and realize that this is an opportunity for you to take a moment and see what this means for you.

The only people who do not benefit from situations like this are people who have an agenda to stay in their bubble.  Fear, ego, etc. all play into this agenda.  But the curious and courageous few who look outside now that the bubble popped can find out what they are really and why they live the way they do.

I love my Work.  It freaks people out, but I find that this line of Service to the Creator is the most fulfilling.  This is truly bringing the Fallen back to the Light – both in people and in Dark beings.  What is there to not love about that?

We all need a little help in the end.

 

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

A Brief Exposition on the Demon Class

Archangel Michael has taught us that humans are capable of experiencing a massive range in the spectrum of emotions, with each person being able to experience the lowest of the lows to the highest of the highs.  Also, each human is created with the ability to reach out and commune with the Maker directly, even when one’s life path does not lead to the path of Ascended Master.

Because of the nature of the human reality, many “unseen” background tools are always “running” to help facilitate the human lifetime.  Help is a relative term, for what a human may term helpful is not always the same as what the Light would determine helpful.

One of the tools that runs in the background always are the demonic and detrimental classes of energy beings.  These beings were created as stimulus for humanity and serve multiple purposes, though their highest purpose is always that of the Light.  Demons et al are drawn to individual humans by particular wounds repressed inside a human’s emotional and energetic systems.  Different wounds emit different vibrations and each and every vibration draws a particular type of detrimental being or detritus.

These dark beings energetically connect with the human that emits a compatible vibration, gaining entrance to the human’s energy system because of the wound that emits the vibration – no approval or acceptance by the human is required.  The dark being will move through the energetic system towards the wound itself and the human will not necessarily every be aware of its’ travel.  This was not always so, but humans have devolved in sensitivity and awareness due to the refusal to embrace these parts of human nature, and so now it is this way for the vast majority of individuals.

This selective ignorance has created multiple negative side effects, but the important one in this situation lies within the human’s refusal to acknowledge the different sensations the energetic system relays to them while they also, in turn, continue to ignore the actual wound itself.  As the detrimental beings/items work their way in towards the wound, it/they will begin to amplify the vibration of the wound, causing the human to relax his or her control in suppression of the wound.  This is all part of the Light’s plan, for this gives the human an opportunity to address the wound again, in the hopes that instead of ignoring or repressing the wound the human will, instead, address and heal the issue, and ultimately grow through knowledge and wisdom gained from the wound’s experience.

Many individuals would prefer to believe that there is nothing but evil behind the existence of the Darkness, but that would be putting the Creator in a very small box, for everything serves more than one purpose and at least one purpose for all creations serves the Light.

Humans having a great capacity for emotions and negative emotions make up one half of that spectrum.  Because of that emotional capacity plus the ability to utilize their energy systems unconsciously, many times a single person can be in the position to affect others, such as being used to send or project negative energy forms to another person or even a group of people.  These negative energy forms can affect each person differently, but in the end, both the sender and the receiver are negatively affected by this sharing process.

The process is very involved, so this is just a very simple explanation of what happens.

When humans are young they do not have control over their emotions.  Many times they become swept away in their emotions as they do not know how to temper their emotions with wisdom or rationality.  Some children are able to develop this skill sooner than others, but eventually the majority of children age to a point where they will develop the skills – but some never do. 

It is unfortunate that human societies now do not encourage the development of emotional maturity, due in part because the mass majority of “adults” today are simply individuals who put their personal wants and desires ahead of others.  This self-centeredness causes various forms of hurt in others and because they are human, sometimes the injured party retaliates or forwards their hurt to others through negative situations and emotional displays.

Because emotional states are entirely subjective to the situation, the moment, and the individuals involved it is impossible to create an index of the different why’s and how’s.  It is, however, sufficient to state that when people who have experienced harm – emotionally, mentally, or physically – will unconsciously trigger an energetic fight or flight response system just as individuals would flinch from a flame after enduring a burn wound.

The fight or flight system – physical or energetic – is an unconscious defense designed within the human system that is meant to help keep humans alive during times of stress and trauma.  The ego, another tool for human longevity, is linked directly to this system as well as others and does not have an innate base of wisdom and knowledge, thus it is never wiser, smarter, or more mature than the individual to whom it is attached.

Thus, the majority of time an individual feels hurt in some way, the ego triggers to help defend the individual from the perceived attack.  What has hurt the individual is always dependent upon the wounds that exist within the individual prior to the perceived attack.  Darkness that is attached to an individual’s unhealed wounds will respond to a perceived attack upon its host for it has a vested interest in keeping the host in a place of submission to its desires.  Any possible attack upon its host brings the possibility of change into the environment and change can create a detrimental effect upon the Darkness’s ability to stay attached to the human host.

Along with the defensive reaction to the human’s perceived hurt, the Darkness may also, depending upon the relationship between the individuals, have the opportunity to use the ego and emotional distress to create a negative energetic connection to the perpetrator.  The ego has the same emotional maturity and wisdom of the human as well as the knowledge of all emotional wounds buried within the human.  Unlike humans, egos do not forget the why’s and how’s, though they do not always bring the full memory to the human’s consciousness.

Sometimes these negative energy connections will merely be used as a conduit to blast a negative emotion projection at the perpetrator.  Sometimes, depending upon the individuals involved in the situation, the connection will be a semi-permanent energy conduit to link the two together.

One of the abilities inherent to the Darkness is to create a negative energy connection; it is the skill they utilize during the process of attaching to the wounded individuals with whom they have located.  Once established to another human, the Darkness will be able to use this conduit for any number of purposes, immediately and in the future.

It must be stated, reiterated, and emphasized that the human is the responsible party in this situation and that any and all karma will rest upon the human, not the Darkness.  It is the human’s responsibility to grow and learn and develop in emotional maturity and when that is not so, then the High Self will work in conjunction with the ego and Darkness to create situations where the human is presented with opportunities to move further on the path towards healing and growth.

Does the Darkness do destructive things to the humans with whom negative energy conduits have been attached?

It depends upon what you consider destructive.  One must always return, however, to the primary guideline that even high level demons respond to the resonance within the individual.  This resonance guides the Darkness and thus, the wounds are what is important to consider here.

The majority of all negative energy attachments are created between two individuals who have an emotional history with each other; this history provides the wounds that require healing and thus, the energy connection is established.  The other attachments are allowed because of Life Lessons, one’s Life Path, and Karmic/Soul Agreements requiring resolution.

How can negative energy connections create healing opportunities?  The negative energy connection is linked to a wound within the individual; the energy stimulates the Darkness that is attached the wounds within the individual and this stimulation will cause the wound to consciously surface within the individual’s psyche.

Let’s look at some examples.

Example 1:
Mom assigns Teen to clean a room as a weekly chore.  Teen never wants to clean the room, avoids cleaning the room at all costs, denies not cleaning the room, and once threatened enough with losing privileges cleans the room very poorly.  The lack of accountability and responsibility frustrate Mom and she does not have the emotional maturity to reason with the child, she only knows how she was raised and that was with threats of loss.  After a neighbor comes over unexpectedly, Mom is embarrassed because the room was messy, and she and Teen get into a huge fight.  Mom and Teen say unkind things to each other and the situation devolves into a very unpleasant argument until both are unable to talk coherently.

Example 2:
Husband and wife are both unhappy in marriage.  Husband knows he ought to be honest about the situation and push for a separation, but he hates the idea of losing financially in the short and long term.  Wife knows he is unhappy but because he is not honest she does not respect him and considers him a coward and less a man for his inability to both communicate and be committed to either the marriage or to what he thinks he wants now.

Example 3:
A and B belong to a social group that meets once a week.  They have never liked each other, but are often thrown together because of this weekly meeting.  Neither wants to give up the social group yet neither wants to attempt to clarify or work through the animosity both unknowingly feel. At a particular event, A and B are thrown together and are unable to complete the project they were assigned because neither would extend past their animosity to succeed.

Example 4:
Father was raised in a culture where the children were seen and not heard.  After moving to an environment greatly different from the homeland, the Father experiences dismay and shock at how different the culture is at the new location and forbids the children from associating with the others they go to school with.  After discovering that one of the children stayed after school to work with another child on homework, the father beats the child as he feels is appropriate punishment.  The school reports the father’s behavior to the authorities and the children are all taken away for evaluation.  The father almost loses his employment when this is found out.  To keep his job and to have the children returned, he has to agree to terms he does not approve of nor does he intend to keep.  He decides it is time to move from where they live and secretly makes plans to flee once the children are back at home. The children, knowing their father’s mindset and beliefs, try to convince the government official to not return them for they are afraid of being beaten and punished for their father will not believe he did anything incorrect, so it must be their fault.

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Do you see how it is easy for the Dark to create a negative energy connection in each of these situations?  Emotion is key and in each of the situations above, one contributing factors is the lack of honesty to self and others.  This is, unfortunately, a trait that is out of control within human culture, yet is allowed to exist because humans have the Right of Free Will.

In each situation, there exists negative emotional situations, yet no one reaches beyond their current emotional state to grow their emotional maturity.

In each of these incidents, non-Love is the dominant emotional state and thus negative energy conduits, or chords, have been created between the individuals.  For the children under the age of 18, they will not incur particular forms of Karma as the parents have the ability to control the choices and situations.  For the adults in each scenario where either a Life Lesson, Life Path, or Agreement is present, they will not only create negative energy connections with each other, they will draw others to them with the same issues, creating additional negative energy connections, UNTIL the lesson is learned or the agreement is resolved.

 

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Exorcism – what is that exactly?

According to the Catholic Encyclopedia New Advent, exorcism is:

(1) the act of driving out, or warding off, demons, or evil spirits, from persons, places, or things, which are believed to be possessed or infested by them, or are liable to become victims or instruments of their malice;

(2) the means employed for this purpose, especially the solemn and authoritative adjuration of the demon, in the name of God, or any of the higher power in which he is subject.

There are multiple reports on the web that will tell you exorcism rates have gone up or have gone down, but just like with all statistics on the web those ‘facts’ really need to be taken with a teaspoon of salt.  I know multiple individuals who do the work that I do and not a single person or entity has asked them if their business has gone up or down, regardless of what religion or affiliation they belong to.

What THAT means is that some are Shamans, many align themselves as New Age Christians, some consider themselves spiritual, and others who identify as Metaphysical.  Personally, I view myself as “spiritual” because no one particular belief system has ever worked for me and as I use gifts such as clairaudience to communicate with the Angelics and Light Beings, that is the closest I can do for labeling myself.

So – if over 25 people I know who do this either part time or full time have never been pinged, I think it is quite safe to say that whoever is creating these reports has very faulty knowledge.

So – back to exorcism.  I don’t use the word myself as it has a LOT of negative connotations with it, from misinformation to outright hilarity, but I do use it when I try to explain to someone who is completely outside the metaphysical word because the word is recognized easily.

The word is recognized, but the individual who does this work comes in many different shapes and sizes.  Some label themselves as Mediums because they can speak with ghosts/discarnates but they never do any de-possession work.

Some like to work with nature and balancing out the energies of the planet from the various ills that have and are occurring that create negative energies.

The majority of individuals I know who have learned how to do this work just choose to not do it for what should be obvious reasons.  Those reasons range from it is just a scary idea that demons etc. exist to the fear of becoming possessed because they are trying to help someone else.

If the exorcist contacted reacts with anything other than curiosity, you may want to reconsider utilizing their services.  Curiosity is not eagerness. Eagerness can be a strong indicator of lack of experience which can lead to the knowledge that they really have not been trained at all to do the work.

If you are concerned about this person’s experience level ask for particular situation examples.  Length of time doing this work means nothing if someone has only done this work twice in 10 years.  Professionals will not mind giving you examples of work they have done, though they ought not provide details so specific that you could track the situation down on the internet.

Again – this work is not for the faint of heart and it is not for someone who has watched some movie and thinks they can talk to spirits so hey, let’s give it a try.

Ghosts are relatively easy to process though there is that percentage that are stubborn and attach themselves to someone or some thing to be able to stay on this plane of existence.  I know there exists a certain percentage of individuals who feel that having ghosts around is really cool, however, their being present on the earth plane is not proper for their soul plus if you are helping them stay that can create negative karma on your part.

I am not going to go into to move ghosts/discarnates along in this article. It has too often been misunderstood and misused and there are too many people out there who simply belong in the “that’s not going to happen to me” category, thus they do something that not only endangers themselves but others.

Please don’t misunderstand me.  I am not going to stop someone from exercising their free will to do whatever they want.  It is the fact that they do things that can endanger someone else who may not have had the situation explained properly or they have not been given the opportunity to exercise their free will that concerns me.

I have dealt with too many young people who saw a movie and decided they would do something “to see what happens” and then end up in situations that are not easily resolved.  The fear and pain they feel from what they have acquired thus keeps them from helping themselves, sealing the demons and detritus within them and leaving those outside of them unable to assist.

Ghosts/discarnates are easier to deal with than the demon category.  Working with the land is easier still.  Demons should never be attempted unless you have worked under the eye of someone who has not only the skill to take care of the situation but can also take care of YOU should you fall prey to that which you are supposed to be ridding someone of.

Just as you would not go to someone for surgery who has not gone to school AND done a lengthy residency under another doctor’s eye, don’t contact just ANYONE to do the work that is necessary.  Reputable exorcists (or cleansers, as I prefer to call myself) will be able to tell you what the situation is from where they are sitting and how much it will cost before they ever come out.  If they give you a standard pricing menu then you may want to look elsewhere.

This work is not the same as a party where you pull out your Ouija board to play pretend.  People can be hurt emotionally, physically, and energetically when screw offs dabble where they should not.

And the truth is, there is an exceedingly small percentage of the people who DO this work who are actually proficient at it.  Most are fooled by the demons to thinking they are gone when, in fact, the demon just hopped hosts.

If this is giving you pause, making you question what you have believed to be true, or causing you to sneer – GOOD.  All these reactions mean you have actually read what this article is about and comprehended enough to have a reaction to it.  This is the first step.

I always give estimates before I work with anyone and I will tell them how many sessions (if more than 1) it will take to clear the situation up.  If it takes more than that I often times eat the extra cost, unless there was way more to the situation than was shared with me.

Free will allows the client to not tell me everything and if they don’t share something pertinent with me, I don’t have the right to necessarily pry into the situation energetically.  For example, let’s say you know grandpa’s been acting very unlike himself for years but you contact me to just have the house cleared because you have had doors open or lights turn on or off.

Well, after I am done the house will be cleared, but it is momentary if grandpa’s possessed.  You might get a whole 24 hours of peace, but after that it is uncertain because that which has possessed grandpa may just attract more things to the space.

You will encounter a large number of exorcists who will assure you up, down, left, right, and sideways that when they are done the space will stay cleared forever. This is not true – and thus this person is not truly an exorcist.  Our world is made up of energy and these beings are also energy.  They are attracted to certain energy frequencies and if grandpa is the lighthouse saying “come on over” you will absolutely have something begin to happen.

I love my work.  This work and my ability to do it explained why I have been the way I have been all my life.  This work fills me with joy.  I love possession work, I love clearing the land/space/environments, and I love the discarnate work.  There are other things in addition to this, but I am not going to dig into that because it can scare people to know about them

I freak 99.99% of people in the Light Community out because of the work I do.  I freak out 100% of those with the fact that the work fills me with joy.  Most people who do this work feel they HAVE to do this work because they keep getting asked to do something and they just fall into the pattern of doing it.  This does not mean they are effective at it – they are just the “go to” person for the area and feel obligated to continue to do so.  In some cases, when someone like me comes into the area, their ego will go so upset that they will continue to do the work even though they are not that good at it.

Many people who do this work are sincere in their desire to help others free themselves from what they perceive as evil.  This is a commendable attitude and belief, however, this alone is not going to make them effective.  Full body possession can be a terrifying situation for someone who is totally not prepared for it.  While some things can be done distantly, true full body possession requires a hands-on approach.  Often this is for the loved ones to be able to reach out and touch the exorcist and know help is actually there.

Do not ever discount the comfort an exorcist can provide by just being present in the space. 90% of my work does not need me to be physically present, yet my being there for clients lends them emotional comfort.  So, I do it when I can.  Since many cannot afford the expenses involved with bringing me to their environment I often do sessions distantly to get the situation under a certain amount of control.

At that point, sadly, the situation is no longer as scary and people state that they are fine with the way it now is and so my services are no longer needed.  This is sad, not because I am worried about losing income, but because the situation ONLY has a band aid on it and will eventually recreate what made them scared in the first place.

I have done work in homes, businesses, historical venues, churches, and stores. There is no ‘sacred’ place that will keep demons away because our world is made of energy and these are energy beings.  Tell yourself to stop breathing air and see how long that works for you. Same thing, though a little convoluted on the example.

I pride myself on discretion; it does not help anyone to act like the crazy person from the movies and it can prevent people from seeking help in the first place. Professional exorcists are just that – professional.  If you get someone in who starts behaving in a way that makes you extremely uncomfortable (I have seen some weird stuff in my time that was supposed to be effective) stop them.  Make them explain exactly what they are doing and why.  If they cannot explain what and why then you ought to have them leave.  It is a 99% chance they have no idea what they are doing and will only complicate the matter greatly.

And, if they say they want to film it or bring in equipment, please note – these are not exorcists.  They are paranormal groupies looking to document “something” to boost their egos.  Every show you watch on TV that purports to be “real” is fake. Promise – fake.  I have encountered two such groups in the past and both were completely intimidated by the work I do.  They like to believe it is all fake and make believe, but you put a proper possession or haunting in their faces and they freak out because they don’t know what to do!  One key person on the show became extremely hostile to me because he wanted to make money off of what I wanted to clear away.  NOT someone you want in your home or work environment!

Professionals will empathize and try to leave your home as untouched as possible. They know you have to live there.  Sometimes it may be necessary to move furnishings around, but exorcists don’t haul in more than a small bag or two of stuff to do their work and they won’t start banging holes in your walls. They won’t want to put cameras up to film everything that goes on either.  These people are just voyeurs who are looking for some validation that they exist.  Go professional – it may cost a little more, but isn’t grandpa’s sanity and your home worth it?

To end up this long diatribe regarding authentic exorcists, use your common sense. Hauntings and possessions are NOT common sense oriented, but that does not mean you need to throw everything out the window because it is new to you.  God gave you some sense – use it to help yourselves and rid yourself of the drama!

©2017 Julia Knickerbocker ALL RIGHTS RESERVED

Fear Can Be a Powerful Motivator

There are many people with kind hearts and a desire to help that exist on the Earth Plane.  There are also many people who are not kind and only desire to hurt any and all that they can impact.  Unfortunately, neither category of people really knows what to do when situations fall outside their normal, accepted lives.

The internet is both a good thing and a bad thing.  When I was growing up, it did not exist. I could not escape to my room and google the things that I was experiencing.  There was nothing I could turn to that would help explain what I was sensing, feeling, seeing…nothing that could allay my fears that my parents only compounded by telling me there was nothing there.  Nothing there – yet I could see it plain as day.

Again, the internet is both good and bad.  For those who are in need, there are plenty of site you can google to look at, see if their ideas are reasonable, see if they match up with what your experience is.  And the flip side of that is there are far too many idiots out there telling people to do something that will a) not help the situation, b) not explain the situation, and c) will only complicate the situation that is present.

All too often fear is the motive driving the person’s research.  Fear for themselves or fear for their children.  Fear is a healthy motivator, but that fear also makes one vulnerable to those that prey upon the ones in need.

I don’t keep track of the people who visit my site, who read the blogs and look at the different pages.  That is unimportant to me.  What is important is that my information is out there and somewhere, someone is using it and helping themselves either with information or with steps that can be taken to help protect themselves.

God helps those who help themselves and when you are in a situation where you are being scared by something non-human, that is a time when you need to help yourself.  There are ways to clear everything – you just have to ask.